Selfie is aptly defined by Oxford English
Dictionary as “A photograph that one has taken of oneself, typically one taken
with a smartphone or webcam and shared via social media”.
The definition implies the sharing as an
important aspect of selfie. Practically,
all the “How to’s” are dealing with taking a selfie but hardly any “How To” on
important aspect of cares to be taken
before sharing a selfie on social media.
Sharing aspect is equally important as “A
picture is worth thousand words” and more so, as the saying goes, “You are a
slave to your spoken words”.
One would do well to take care of the following
tips before sharing a selfie on social media:
1.
Selfie would not just be viewed by intended audience but also
by unintended audience, may be known or unknown to you.
2. Viewer will gaze the selfie and evaluate it as per his/her
mental frame and would perceive you as he/she wants to perceive you rather than
what you intended.
3. Definition of “Propriety “is highly fluid depending upon
culture, religion, education, age, social relation, etc. However, there are
certain basic standards of behavior universally accepted as “good” or rejected
as “bad”. Who would love a selfie depicting a person beating a dog mercilessly?
4. Many persons have an impulse to show off their material
possessions. Adopt a “decent” way of showing off your material possession. Your
selfie with a car dealer with your car in back ground will earn you more Likes
than your selfie flaunting you astride on the hood of the car.
5. There is a scope (though very little) of your image being
morphed or mimicked and misused. Keep in touch with social media to check
whether your selfie is abused and boomeranged.
6. “Ati Sarvatra Varjayet” (refrain from excess of anything)
says a proverb in Sanskrit (the language of Indian scriptures and sages). Do
not share too many selfies. Do not share too often.
7. Respect the privacy of others. Do not share any selfies which
includes any person without his/her wish in your selfie.
8. Do not share any selfie which insults Nationals Emblems/
insignia or offends the elders, the aged, kids, pets and animals.
9. Barring a few sad incidents, a smile is a universal ornament
to liven up your personality. For sharing, prefer a selfie with a genuine
brimming smile.
10. Sharing a selfie is a serious action. Do it
after careful consideration otherwise it may earn many “Likes” from unknown
people and “Dislikes” from your known people.
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